How soon is TOO soon?

I always thought about being in a relationship and how awesome it is, how much it can seriously blow, and of course what happnens at the end. I have always tried to be a live in the moment person, but I cannot help but picture the future in all situations! If you asked me 6 months ago how I would feel if my ex had a new fling within weeks of breaking up I would say %#&@ him and probably be crying hysterically. But sometimes I realize  can be a hypocrit, yes I will admit that.

I broke up with my boyfriend, lets call him Tom* about 3 months ago after it being so ridiculous that I could not bare the arguments anymore. He actually broke up with me which I was waiting for because I could not seem to do the deed myself, pathetic I know. He was my best friend, but thats all anymore. I was no longer in love.

About a month after I broke up with Tom* I met a guy, lets call him *Mike, through a mutual friend. He went to my school and was my year, but somehow we had never met. So this happens, that happens, and we end up hooking up. At first I have never been so confused. I actually left in the middle of the night to sleep at a friends because I was so ashamed that I barely knew this guy!! ANWAYS, it has been about 2 months since and I am head over heels for this guy. I don’t think I ever would have imagined falling for someone this fast! Especially someone I met under those circumstances. We are pretty much inseperable, but it is awesome, I could not be happier.My ex still wants me back , and I tell him were just friends, but do not want to make anything official with the new guy until I feel it has been enough time. Is that bad? 

So everyone out there who thinks a hookup with a guy cannot turn into more, hey it happened to me, and when you least expect it you can find someone who is the ying to your yang without even wanting it. It is my senior year I want to be single and rage with my girls, but now I just want to be with Mike all the time. Interesting and confusing. For the first time in my life…I think I am just going to go with it.

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